Human Stereotypes

Today we will break the emotional fixation to talk about stereotypes and destroy them. All fans' only black and white only "dedicated. Everything will be very simple and clear. Let’s start.

Down with stereotypes!

To date, each person sees the world through a huge pile, it can not be called otherwise, this heap, layered on top of each other, the filter. These filters - is the stereotypes and beliefs! Imagine that you are wearing glasses, having a plurality of filters, lenses, but each lens filters that you see. The result is that hundreds of these filters cut reality, cut from whole chunks of what you see or do, they limit reality. Just think about how to impose on society the views? From this it is necessary to get rid of! We're not talking about all the filters, we can not all cut, you can not behave immorally, or walking in the street stinky, animals, or mock, or steal, after all. However, these popular myths as: "Beautiful girl - so dull," "my car must not be yellow or red, I'm the guy"; "You need to get an education, without it anywhere !!"; "Fashion, style, brands!" - You can easily add to cart.

In psychology, this is called a retrospective rationalization. When we compare their inner sense of himself that thinking surrounding us. If there are inconsistencies - self-esteem begins to decline! Think about it! You can be a good scientist, some Nobel Prize winner, but if you believe that "society" requires you to be fashionable, beautiful, giving interviews and generally achieve more - then you fall into depression and will be unhappy. But there is a subtle point: if you are smart and want them to stay still, without the sports and nutrition not get far. So, say a sports fanatic and HLS much less shuttered stereotypes than lovers of luxury brands and fashion.

Whence undertook the stereotypes

Generally, they help us to learn, at least, thinks the brain. It is easier to generalize ... But we are not looking for easy ways) Even as a child work enough certain patterns of behavior, especially up to 5-6 years. At this age, the most actively build neuronal connections. A great misconception that children under 5 years do not really understand anything, and start learning to 6-7. At the age of 5, they, unconsciously, the foundation is laid. In this age it is important to send a child to form patterns of behavior. Want to he was interested in music, ambient music, he was a traveler - carry any with him everywhere, etc.

But when a child grows up, becomes a teenager, he adopts the behavior patterns with others, including with TV and internet. And where we are constantly screaming about fashion in Milan, about how to be successful needs such a car? Maybe someone at age 10 had friends who said, "My dad bought such a car and now it has become a success!", But in general it is television.

There are real skills, behavior patterns, which need to learn from childhood: "Passing the way, look at first - to the left," "Do not play with fire ...", and is, again, a bunch of stuff, stereotypes. And this is not the choice of the person - and imposed.

Stereotypes as a part of life

What is their main disadvantage? - Stereotypes limit the development of man as an individual. To drive it in a certain framework. And instead unbiased sober view, we get a set of factors that transform information from the outside in a kind of sterile incubator version of reality, which is very negative impact on the long-term development of the brain. You can awake your brain with Phenotropil, Phenylpiracetam, Cogitum, Picamilon, Noopept, Cerebrolysin and Semax.

Stereotypes can become lopsided professional in some field narrow and not notice anything around. With such views can be constantly hear: "It's boring, the world sucks! What about some idiots, no one understands me, etc. "It is very unfortunate, gentlemen. Okay, even when a person has trouble happened and he is upset and angry with all around, from the point of view of psychology - this is quite normal. But when such a narrow curtained kicker starts to lament that "all bad", then who is to blame, that he was going along a narrow path, which is covered in shit. Maybe you need to look around and see others, even "unfashionable" areas, which hide the stereotypes. And as soon as the Iron Curtain will fall, it will become clear that it was moving at night, piggery, and nearby is awesome highway where the movement much better.

Girls also like to generalize, something like: "She's beautiful - probably stupid." As if the higher IQ - the worse it looks. Any stereotype that generalizes all - evil! To summarize it is impossible - it is not rational, it causes the brain to relax.

Destruction of stereotypes

What to do? Where to begin? Trite, for a start will be enough to get to work, at home, another route, it is advisable to take the time to spare. You can wake up early and walk / run through the surrounding area. You can change jobs, it will be doubly easier, you bear a little savings for the first time.

The general idea for the change - out of the comfort zone. Buy a bright thing, and wear it in public, wish good luck to the first comer, boldly engage in dialogue. Please send all the forest - who says that you will not succeed and you need to "engage in other activities", unless of course you are not selling drugs))

In general, a variety of options and their basis - is to act boldly and unfettered. Allow up to your head, think about any idea or thought, even the most delusional. Be open, honest and appropriate. Unfortunately, this behavior borders on dibilizm, so do not walk around in shorts in the city, showing emancipation.)

Parting Wishes

Personal growth and self-development thrive when we nonsusceptibility stereotypes.

Interaction with different views on the people, but without condemnation and controversy - a neuropsychological catalysts, so we are able to take a lot more knowledge without cognitive dissonance. All divisions are imaginary, without them you can look at the world in a different light.

Breaking emotional fixation frame - to develop! (Think about it!)

Bottom line:

The world is not 2-color. A foolish beliefs cause to believe that there is only black and white, only good and bad, life is obtained in a test tube. Although in reality there is only a "winter" and "summer", is a "slush" and "thaw". There is a "warm May rain" and "piercing autumn wind." And I do not care what Freddie Mercury was a fagot, I will not stop to sing Queen songs.