Post-traumatic stress in the relationship Mother - Daughter

Psychologist tells about the symptoms of post-traumatic stress, confusion of social roles and the complex of abandonment. What are the symptoms of post-traumatic stress? What are the characteristics of mother and daughter relationship? And as the mother affects the behavior of her daughter?

Feature of post-traumatic stress (PTSD) is that it delayed the symptoms appear. The man experienced an event, then his life would be like and was adjusted acute condition has passed, and suddenly after three to six months of the renewed influence of the stressor. In humans, there are obsessive paintings of this event, it increases physiological arousal, he does not sleep, trying to avoid situations that remind him of the stressor. In humans, decreased social activity, there are a number of other symptoms. If we turn to the problem of "mother - daughter", it turns out that we can see the impact of post-traumatic stress not only on the person who experienced the event or was an indirect victim (television, radio, newspapers can affect a person as if he was an eyewitness to the events, that is, it is an indirect victim), but also in the inner circle.

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In the course of research, we have identified in daughters than with other couples (ie, mother and daughter, where her mother, we found no evidence of post-traumatic stress), two features. This personality traits daughter and mother, and social roles (for women, the role of the parent and a sense of themselves as individuals). It turned out that the daughter whose mothers experienced a stressful event and have the symptoms, copying their mothers on personality traits. That is, if the personal profiles to construct, they substantially overlap. The famous psychoanalyst Carl Jung said that when we see the coincidence of answers to this or that test, in one way or another conversation, sometimes there can be an illusion, it's a good picture, because people are close. But in fact, therein lies much deeper problem, because it is a different person and, despite the fact that they may be somewhat similar to each other, they can not be symbiotic. It turns out that it's not two individuals, but one person, and the daughter of the mother's life resides. The second phenomenon discovered by us - it's social roles. We see a picture of confusion of roles when the daughter takes on the role of mother, and his mother, on the contrary, it is his daughter. Such a pattern of confusion of roles leads to the fact that the daughter may be, it is not yet ready to perform that role and is experiencing great difficulties fulfilling the role of the parent is not on time. A mother can not cope with his post traumatic stress disorder, because she regressed to childhood.

The daughter may even be detected complex of abandonment is not due to the fact that the mother actually once left one daughter, but because of the emotional emptiness, due to the fact that she could not be emotionally with her daughter. In addition, the relationship "mother - daughter" may affect the relationship with the daughter of the opposite sex, in which she, too, can take on the male role due to the fact that her experience with her mother made her precocious man.